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Her Dream, His Dream

Once upon-a-time...
...and they lived happily ever after

The End

I bet most of the fairy tales we hear during our childhood years sounded very similar if not exactly as the statement above. I have always wanted my life to be similar to those story where there's magic, love, eternal happiness and most important of all my very own prince!
Please note that prince here refers to life-partner and it does not equal to the average "boyfriend".

It's not like I'm going to be seen with a wedding ring and a veil over my head very soon but I do admit, I would really love to get married with my prince as fast as possible so that I can reach the part of the story where "they live happily ever after".

However, I learn that in reality, nothing can be as flawless as in the tales which have been the basic foundation of my life. If life has no flaws, earth would have been known as heaven. Even so, life is still beautiful and I learn that for a marriage to occur there must always be understanding and trust between two people. Besides, when two souls are join into one, her dream and his dream must some what intersect or they can never comprehend the needs of the other.

I am no expert in relationships but I have met a wonderful person who taught me a lot about relationship even though he isn't experienced in it too. I feel I'm more matured now and I no longer fantasies about having a fairy-tale like love but instead I focus to find true love that is realistic in a way that my dream and his dream will have an intersection point.

Having said so much about intersection points, I must clarify it is not about maths but it is about two strangers looking at the same direction and fit one another perfectly just like the lock and key or just like an enzyme to its substrate. I once heard the saying that "Love is not about two people walking on the same pathway but its about two people looking at the same direction". Yes! Therefore, there's no reason for you to despair even if your loved one don't share the same dreams as yours as long as in the end two different dreams leads to one same direction.

I have always been puzzled with how two people can come together but now I am clear. It is not about "opposite attracts" nor is it about "like repels" but it is all about compatibility. Therefore, her dream and his dream must overlap one another at some point as marriage equals to sharing your dreams with your spouse.

I wonder what will my dream be as I'm still in the state of dreaming. Even so, when I'm awake I hope to find my prince who have been dreaming along with me for a long-long time...I am sure because I know you do exist...

Comments

Crazygtown31 said…
dun worry my dear. for sure you get married. and i would bet that you will get married earlier than me!!! cheer up my dear!
April 26, 2008 at 10:55 AM
Pheobe said…
nice post u got there. i once heard. opposite attracts, but later they attack.
haha.. i guess.. we need to take time, and wait for the true one comes by.. ^^
April 26, 2008 at 9:30 PM
Boon said…
dun dream too much...coz if u dream so much...u will becum a dreamer...

ps.dreamer is my nickname...lol...
April 28, 2008 at 2:46 PM
Crazygtown31 said…
rili phoebe? haha... would it be nice if three of us have a wedding ceremony together?
May 2, 2008 at 10:45 AM
Pheobe said…
haha.. great.. i dun even know whether i'l get married or not.. ~.~
same like charlene.. i know he's somehow out there.. the unlucky one -_-"
May 2, 2008 at 7:52 PM
Connie said…
totally agree with u.. i once dwell in the "fairy-tale" dreams too.. but reality has brought my sense back.. haha.. btw.. i'm connie..
May 29, 2008 at 4:24 PM
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