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I Do Wonder

Will you hurt the one you love?
When she cries on the phone will you remain stone cold and just leave her in that state?
Recently I saw a good friend of mine crying in the toilet and I felt bad.
First of all she is my housemate and I find her to be a plesant person and that is why I felt a sense of concern when I see her crying herself out in the toilet.
When I offered to lend a ear she just told me that she will be okay in a while's time and it is nothing...just some boyfriend thing.
It amazed me that guys these days do not know how to appreciate their love ones. If I were a guy I would not have cut the line leaving my girlfriend crying. I will only do so after consoling her. Anyway $%^& the guys these days!
Not to be rude but you can see how women are starting to dominate the world in most areas as women treasure what they have and they always try their best to achieve the best (most of them). I am not saying all men is bad but in my opinion MOST of the 21st century young men seem to be weak, sissified and have no direction in their life.
Perhaps it is because of history. As we can see women have always been oppressed and even now women in some country still live like in the dark ages. Examples are some country practices Female genitial mutilation which I certainly think its inhumane and barbaric and incivilized. Some countries like india and china practices mass killing of female babies. There are countries that doesn't allow their women to show their body parts as they think by showing a little cleavage will stimulate the men and if the lady got raped its all her fault etc. BULLSHIT!
One thing I hate the most is all the stupid chavnistic jokes made by the male species. I beleive what my friend said is true. She said "it's alright for a male to make such sexist jokes if they think by making such jokes can restore their bruised ego". Note the sarcasm she used ^^ Well said! Majority of Males today are useless and only by making such jokes do they feel superior towards the females. Sad Case!
By the way females can drive well too! I hate it in Malaysia or perhaps it happens in other country too whenever people says thing like "OMG~ lessen kopi-O~! sure is a woman driver!". For the knowledge of your minute male brain, woman can drive very well too. My best friend can drive as efficient and as classy as any Formula-1 racer and she is a FEMALE!
Okie I don't mean to promote Feminism but I am a Feminist =P and I love the way I am cause I do feel we should put the male specimens into their place where they belong!
Coming back to my friend, her boyfriend did not call her untill today even though she cried so hard. It makes me wonder how does she and her boyfriend define "love". In my opinion she certainly is "caught in a bad romance" as mentioned by Lady Gaga. Anyway I hope everything goes well for her.

"lessen Kopi-O" means Coffee license: a term indicating someone got their driving license in an easy manner probably by giving "duit kopi" or "coffee money" which is bribe.

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