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I have finally settled down in my rented room. The moment I opened my room door I just felt so glad that I had thoroughly cleaned it before I left as it felt good to enter a squeaky clean room. The weather was also great, it was rainy and rather cold thus eliminating the need for me to adapt to my usually “hot as furnace” room. In fact I packed some cool fever with me thinking I may need to use some in case it’s warm. The room also felt much quiet since it’s rainy and those hooligans with their motorcycles probably are deterred by the rain. I have never liked motorcycles and the hate towards that horrible invention amplifies whenever I am in this poorly developed place where the youths here have nothing better to do than to have illegal bike race. Actually it is true the youth here have not much options. They don’t have a cinema or karaoke lounge and does not allow bars or sales of raffle tickets. The mall is rather small but that is where people hang out other than the beach which is rather dirty. Anyway it is no surprise that a colleague told me that this state have one of the highest number of people surfing pornography. I really feel like I am in a different country every time I return here. 


The time spent at home was blissful and everyday I get to wear whatever I liked not fearing whether I am showing too much skin or if my dressing would offend anyone. There’s also more Christmas related decorations and it was nice not having to hear sounds from any religious facility (I just don’t want to mention it but it is already quite obvious which faith blast their sermons and do not care if it is considered as a form of noise pollution). I just grow to have some phobia towards a certain religion when it starts to cause interference in my life. Anyway, whatever! I still think any religion that cannot morph with time and do not have compassion and tolerance towards other faiths will only cause regression. 


Somehow it is so cold that I need to wear a jacket and turn my fan speed down to 2 instead of the usual full speed. However I do not want the rain to stop, in fact I wish it could rain continuously and keep my room cold everyday. Seriously if I have to choose to die in the cold or die in heat, I would choose to die in the cold. Also sleeping in a slightly chilled environment gives better rest for the brains this better function the next day. I am also ready to wear my yellow boots (I often call it the Puah Chu Kang boots) along with my raincoat and umbrella to work after having it stored away for 10 months. It is a shame the rainy season will only last about 4-6weeks and then it’s an entire year of “hell fire”. 


I do wonder is it rainy at other places right now. Just remember to keep yourself warm and bring an umbrella out if it is rainy too. Good night. 

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