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感恩有你

 今天突然聊起路上遇到的人他到底有没有加好友。他说之前一路上加的好友都没聊天过所以也没有再主动加但是也不抗拒别人加他。 我想起了当初是我加他好友位了问有关烘焙的问题。 真没想到他答复并且我们从陌生变得相当熟悉。 我无法说我们很熟但是绝对比一般的朋友熟悉。 我说了一句谢谢他接受我的好友他也补上了一句谢谢我加了他好友。 我又想起游戏里是他先加我好友因为我不敢和他玩觉得他很厉害我有点菜。 所以我又说谢谢你游戏里加了我好友。 反正后来他问我今天是感恩节吗?我说感恩不需要节日。 

他就说了一句 “感恩有你 (双手合十的帖子)x2” 我也同样回复了一模一样的句子。 我相信他那句话是真心的, 我也一样真的感恩有他。 昨天我看了一个视频有关喜欢,觉得视频反应了我的心声。 我喜欢和他的互动, 喜欢关注他。 那个视频是我微信里看的, 就是由遇心咨询室发的《原来这才是喜欢一个人最好的状态》。 

好啦我困了我想睡觉明天继续做更好的自己。 我很喜欢现在的我。 周末我真的把该做的做好也上了网课。我要继续喜欢他,他不需要喜欢我。 晚安

对了我的巴西朋友突然消失其实我有点担心他同时也觉得他这样突然消失有点过分。 没关系我觉得我真的已经习惯了世间的无常。 我祝福他。

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