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日久深情

 遇见一个人然后渐渐的认识他, 随着时间培养了一份感情。 这一切我都觉得很奇妙。 之前是陌生人, 过后熟悉了就变成生活里不能少的一个人。 因为如此也对对方的感受比较敏感, 也很在乎对方的想法和生活的每一个细节。      今天我感到身边的朋友好像比往常不一样。 也许是不舒服或是有心里话没和我说或有私事不能说出口。 少了一点交流, 自然的我也会稍微想太多。 我也发觉到我们平时的互动好像变成了一种习惯, 一种生活里我期待的环节。二十四小时没得一起玩网上游戏, 感觉有点不正常, 游戏也变得没那么好玩了。         我知道大家都有自己的生活,渐渐的也不能每天玩网上游戏因为各自都有更重要事物和责任。 我真的很舍不得那些欢乐时光,可我也知道天下无不散的宴席。我也知道我对他日久生情也日久深情。 今天有点疏远的感觉,让我有种预感我们或许随着时间的流逝回归到陌生人的状态。这种思想的确让我感到难过,也知道自己本来就是一个拿得起放不下的人。           我真的要学会放下,也要学会看破红尘,别太执着。这样才能解脱执着带来的痛苦。    

What is Love?

Recently I heard a description of love which I could really identify with. It is about hearts and golden strings. I could not describe it further as I think the description is unique and belongs to the owner who had used his heart and mind to form the definition of Love. Besides, I want to keep it as an exclusive memory and not share it openly here. Reflecting on the definition, it is true that in this life many would not be able to find such Love. I often thought I found it, until reality hits and I am made to see that I did not experience such Love.  It is hard to quantify love, however it is vital to find a life partner who makes you feel Loved and this is only possible if the giver understands the recipient's Love language. Having a mismatch in the love language would only translate to feelings of lack of Love. Reminds me of the mandarin song by Sam Lee where part of the lyrics goes by "What you desire, I could not give; What I could give, is not what you desire". I