I need to learn communicating skills especially when speaking with my family. It seems like everything that comes out of my golden mouth is labled as "atom bomb" by my family's special radar. I used to think that they are the one that is paranoid and not open for any communications but perhaps I am wrong.
I am not sure is it the tone of my voice or the way I construct my sentence or maybe I didn't choose a righ time to talk or...I just lack the skillful way of trying to get my words registered to their heads and not getting the response that I am actually trying to start a war. Therefore, from today onwards, I will try to change myself to adopt a good communication skills that before I knew it I will be the master of communication! A total professional!
Yeah, I guess I am still not doing things right and immature in many ways not to mention that I am somehow selfish (awww...don't be too hard on yourself girl). Anyway, anyhow, I will have to try to improve to a better being or I will loose not only my entire family but also someone who is quite important in my life. I am not speaking about death but about the disruption of relationships between human beings.
For teens that want to improve in your communication skills with your family especially with your parents, you can check this site :
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/families/talk_to_parents.html
Let's improve the way we communicate! And remember, communication does not only involve speaking but also listening!
"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak"
I am not sure is it the tone of my voice or the way I construct my sentence or maybe I didn't choose a righ time to talk or...I just lack the skillful way of trying to get my words registered to their heads and not getting the response that I am actually trying to start a war. Therefore, from today onwards, I will try to change myself to adopt a good communication skills that before I knew it I will be the master of communication! A total professional!
Yeah, I guess I am still not doing things right and immature in many ways not to mention that I am somehow selfish (awww...don't be too hard on yourself girl). Anyway, anyhow, I will have to try to improve to a better being or I will loose not only my entire family but also someone who is quite important in my life. I am not speaking about death but about the disruption of relationships between human beings.
For teens that want to improve in your communication skills with your family especially with your parents, you can check this site :
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/families/talk_to_parents.html
Let's improve the way we communicate! And remember, communication does not only involve speaking but also listening!
"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak"
- Epictetus (Greek phillosopher)
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like my parent...they treat me so nice just like a fren...
every sunday...my papa ask me to drink beer with him...
how u treat ur family and they will treat u bak in the same way...
ITs all about respect!!!
ha boon? ur papa ask u to drink beer? @.@
well actually, im not doing nothing these days, im actually taking up skills, learning PR from my bro. haha. when u finally realized u always "thought that u're busy" and u left out some of the precious things in life. listen.