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Just a few days ago I was a bit upset with my parents and the way stuff is but after sorting them out I can definitely I say I am such a drama queen (*cringe in embarassment). I made such a big hoo-haa over such a teeny weeny thingy. Luckily I have a nice rational buddy to talk to or I will never grow out of that drama queen habit. *giggles.

Family must be a very sacred and precious thing cause no matter how many squabbles you may have with them, you will still love them for who they are. It's impossible to even hate your family or resent them or being mad at them for a long time. I have always placed my family first above everything else in my life and I never regret doing so. I am just sorry that sometimes my immaturity made them look so bad in the eyes of others.

I do feel it is so unfair that whenever a kid mess up, the parents will be the first target for everyone to blame. Don't you think it's rather unfair? Maybe in some case it is the parents fault but there's no need to be a stereotype and think that parents are responsible for whatever their children did. Maybe I am saying all these cause I feel so guilty for being immature the other day. I feel so guilty that I did not think out of the box. And I feel guilty for ever talking nasty things about my parents.

I saw on one of my friend's MSN personal message which stated the words :

"You can't spell FAMILIES whithout LIES"
(Quote from the movie Four Christmases)

These words somehow made me ponder, families and lies... really don't seem to go together do they? Anyway, I am not really sure what this quote suppose to mean and so I ask my mom for her opinion and she thinks that it means that families sometimes tell white lies to protect one another. Hmm...as for me, I think that somehow each family have some lies in them which only certain member know about. I prefer my mom's opinion though, it sound more positive than mine.

Oh, my family, I have got lots to learn from each of you and no matter what, I always love each and everyone of you! *Muackss!

Comments

Boon said…
lol...i love my family...

sista always scold me...coz she love me...

momma always mumbling to me...coz she love me...

my papa always shout at me...coz he love me...

coz i knew that...they wont do tat if they dun love me...coz i am important to them...and i love them likewise too...
Pheobe said…
well, i agree with you. since im an easily being triggered to get angry, but i'll always force myself to let me know that my family will be the last person for me to get angry with.

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