I discovered a social media account recently with lots of interesting math problems and solutions. The channel is called 许多快乐的许多吖，basically the little girl's name is 许多 and she is very well articulated and solve math problems in an interesting manner. I had to restrain myself from checking all her videos as I am limiting my screen time since I have so much more reading to do. Somehow watching her videos make me happy and I get to learn how to solve math problems in a different manner. I really want to thank my friend from China for making me reinstall WeChat and in a blink of an eye, it has been a year since I reinstalled the app and we are also friends for a year now.
I enjoy our friendship very much and it is one that abide to social boundaries. He is probably someone God sent me after everything I went through online to teach me that this is how online friendships should be. What I learned from our interaction for the past 1 year is that we barely disclose much about ourselves or our life, since GunboundM brought us together, we stick to discussing mostly about the game. I recalled he switched to a new account in between and that time I still did not have WeChat, yet by fate we seemed to bump into each other again. I don't know how he looks and he does not know how I look either and it does not matter at all. It was fun to find out that he is born in November but the difference is he is a Scorpio which is also a water zodiac like me. What is more interesting is, his son's birth date is the date of my wedding anniversary. However since reading the “You are not so smart book", I no longer believe in coincidences. It is just statistical synchronicity. Anyway, old habits die hard and I told him I will buy 4D and wonder if I should buy it now or on that day itself, he said I should buy it on that day itself. Okay, so we shall see, I do plan to drop him a red packet if I strike.
Another thing that I finally learned and practice is that, there is no need to have communication on a daily basis with friends, be it girl or boy. The only person I should be communicating with on a daily basis is my partner. Somehow I find my partner amusing the other day when I received a text message from 痒痒男 asking me if I am back. I wondered out loud "eh, 痒痒男 find me, don't know why" and what my partner say next got me laughing so hard as I couldn't believe what I heard. He said "miss your ass lah", since my partner is well aware of 痒痒男 and his buttock worshiping nature. However I find it very funny because we often communicate in mandarin so when he say it in English and used the word "ass", it really caught me off guard.
I was slightly irritated yesterday when I wanted to leave and I saw he was not wearing his gold chain, I asked him to put it on twice but he did not listened to me. In the car I checked his neck and then reasoned with him that I am upset he did not listen to me. He said the chain does not have the ability to protect him, I said that is not the whole point, the whole point is that I will feel comforted if he have it on because I think it has the ability to protect him. So in frustration, I told him "there, this is one of the reason why I always think you are not ready for marriage because you only think about how you feel and do not consider how I feel, dsg!" he was like "what is dsg?" to which I replied “单生狗”. Come to think of it, I should have argued on the fact that our home lacks security and he should not leave the chain lying around at home while we are away, probably his male brain could agree with this point better.
He gave me the book "The Law of Attraction" yet I think there are a few aspects that he is not practicing. When I look at our wardrobe, I only have a 10% occupancy and 90% is by his clothes. I understand that I do not stay there most of the time, but if he want to attract a life where we are staying together, he need to make space for his spouse. I don't think he realize this and I shall bring this up after my exams as I don't know what smart answers is he going to come up with and I need to be fully prepared to debate with him. I do enjoy a good debate, and it reminded me of the days where I fell for him because he questioned my choice to be a vegetarian.
It's just another 4 weeks more to go till exams and I really got to be strong and convince myself not to go home this weekend. It is such a long weekend with a 4 day break and I am so tempted to go home again. Sigh, sacrifice now, enjoy later. I can do it! Please let me dream about the exam questions! (Okay, I am pushing my luck a bit too far).
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